7) Don't Be Pushy I never try to make or trick her into doing something that she doesn't want to do or is uncomfortable with; I am not pushy; I let her go at a pace that she is comfortable with. Also, I don't rush the conversation. I take my time exploring each topic. 8) Don't Get Upset I never get upset when she doesn't do or give me what I want; and I don't make passive-aggressive comments when I don't get what I want. 9) Be Honest About Yourself Although I don't willingly give up information about myself, if she asks me a question, I always answer honestly.